雅思口语新题【乐于助人的人】第三步要怎样说呢？

　　雅思口语新题【乐于助人的人】第一步我们说要先介绍人物以及你是如何认识的，第二步是描述人物是如何具体的去帮助别人，那么第三步是什么呢?为什么要去帮助别人，下面我们一起来看看：

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　　Why the person helps others

　　对于这一小问，多数同学能想到的出发点应该是“助人为乐的好处”。值得肯定的是，这条思考路线是没有问题的，但是问题在于你究竟能想到多少好处呢?还是说你和大多数同学一样最多只能想到“帮助别人可以获取成就感”?如果是这样的话，我只能说你看到的面有点窄，同时也错过了很多更有价值的观点。为了让你们看到更多不同的观点，我分四条不同的线来解析“助人为乐的原因”：

　　• 助人为乐的好处

　　- A sense of joy and achievement 开心/成就感

　　帮助别人可以让自己开心，因为你看到了别人的笑脸;帮助别人也可以给你带来很大的成就感，因为你的一个小小的举动会大大的影响别人的生活。

　　Example ：

　　She likes helping others because it brings her a great sense of joy and achievement. Unlike others who are reluctant to help people in need, she sees the value of doing so and often says doing small things can make a huge difference. It also cheers her up. She often receives thank-you notes and small gifts which always makes her day.

　　- Helping others is helping yourself 帮助别人就是帮助自己

　　孟子曾经说过：“得道者多助，失道者寡助。” 如果你喜欢帮助别人，当你遇到困难时，你也会得到别人的帮助。除此之外，帮助别人也是提升个人技能、增加个人经验的机会。比如，你去博物馆做志愿者，你会为此获取一大堆有关历史的知识;如果你去帮助有心理疾病的人，你就会学习有关抑郁症治疗的方式。

　　Example ：

　　The reason why he likes to help others is very simple. He thinks helping others is helping himself. He also believes helping others is a good way to enhance his personal skills and increase life experience. Last year, he joined the red cross to help people with hearing difficulties. He spent several months learning sign language. Even though the learning process was tough and challenging, he enjoyed it very much.

　　-Making more friends 交到更多朋友

　　一个乐于助人的人一定也是受欢迎的人。他们会有很多朋友，而这些朋友也可以缓解他们的孤独。

　　Example ：

　　She likes helping others because it’s a good way to make lots of new friends. Actually, she is an introverted person who is always shy in front of others, so she has no idea how to make friends. However, she likes giving others a hand when they are in need. Because of this, she now has lots of friends.

　　• 受他人影响

　　很多人喜欢帮助别人是受到了别人的影响。这个“别人”可能是身边人，比如：爷爷奶奶、爸爸妈妈、哥哥姐姐，也有可能是听说的人，比如：明星或者出现在新闻里的人。最终，我们会因为身边人的行为而耳濡目染;我们会因为崇拜而学习他们的行为。除此之外，我们也会因为我们曾经受到过别人的帮助而开始帮助别人。

　　Example one：

　　Greatly influenced by her grandpa, she also likes to help others. She was brought up by her grandpa. Everyday she saw her grandpa helping others from trivial things to big issues and her grandpa always told her the importance of helping others. Because of this, she is also very kind-hearted. Whenever anyone needs help, she is there.

　　Example two：

　　She likes to help others because it is an opportunity to give back. When she was young, her family was poor and couldn’t afford to send her to school. Fortunately, a famous businessman offered to fund all of her education. She never got the chance to meet the businessman, but he changed her life and she wants to help as many people as she can.

　　• 感同身受

　　有这么一类人他们想要帮助别人可能是因为感同身受。他们之前有遇到过相同的问题，为此他们希望其他人可以相对而言走的更加顺利一些。这就可以拿我自己举个例子，我个人的雅思口语是从4.5-8.5，这中间走过的弯路只有自己知道。为此，我在2016年创立自己的公众号希望帮助更多学生成功通过雅思考试。

　　Example ：

　　He likes to help others because he understands how terrible it feels when you really want something but have no idea how to get it. He has taken the IELTS exam many times but never got the score he wanted. Because of this, he wants to share all of his experience and techniques to help others ace the exam.

　　• 责任/义务

　　其实还有一群人他们会想要帮助别人是因为责任和义务，比如冠状病毒暴发期的医生护士们。除了他们真的是一群心地非常善良的人以外，他们想要帮助别人也是因为他们是党员。作为党员，他们需要在危难关头挺身而出。

　　Example ：

　　He never hesitates to help others because being a member of the Communist Party means he has the responsibility and obligation to help others out in bad situations. Because of this, he always puts other people before himself.